Single again. Not super happy. But as someone who's opinion I value greatly said tonight on the phone - It's not my damage. This particular relationship fuck up isn't so much about me.
And for a wonder? I can SEE that this time.
Doesn't make it super easy. Doesn't mean I am not hurt and hurting. Doesn't mean that I am ready for anything else right now. But it does mean that I can try to take it in stride.